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Dr. Parker,

I am 49 yrs. old in good physical health. I walk or run several times a week, and am slim(5ft.115 lbs) and look youthful. However, I have a lot of stress-6 children, 2 with drug addictions, a difficult marriage, etc. I have a 10 cm fibroid that is putting pressure on my rectum. I had bleeding and huge clots but taking progesterone 10 days of my cycle has alleviated that. My gyn recommends hysterectomy. I am scheduled for this Thursday, Dec.16, but have a lot of anxiety about it, because I am depressed and worried about how it will affect my emotional state which is already terrible. When I called my gyn he was in his other office further away, and could not call me back. He told his office manager that he already went over everything with me, and to tell me a hysterectomy was the best course of action. He said a myomectomy would thin the lining of my uterus too much. He never mentioned UFE. He seems perturbed that I did go to another gyn for a second opinion. The other gyn said hysterectomy also, not mentioning UFE. I called an interventional radiologist and they said they could see me. Have I broken the doctor-patient trust factor? Will he treat me differently now?


Doctors should welcome a second opinion. You need to do what is best for you and getting a second opinion when surgery is recommended is always a good idea. UAE works very well for heavy bleeding and shrinks fibroids about 40%, so if this would help you, you should see the interventional radiologist to see what they recommend. Myomectomy is always possible and it will not thin the uterine lining no matter what the size of your fibroid. A 10 cm fibroid can be removed laparoscopically as an outpatient by a skilled laparoscopic surgeon.

If the doctor does treat you badly because you got a second opinion, you should consider getting another doctor.

Bill Parker, MD


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